Peter the Cheater

Peter has been showing a little interest in using the potty as of late. He will say he needs to go and then want to sit on the little potty. Sometimes Esther will bring in a couple books that are about learning to go potty and we'll read them. Tonight while I was giving Esther her bath, he went and got the books, came in the bathroom and announced that he needed to go potty while trying to get his pants and diaper off. He sat there for a while and we read the books, but nothing happened. I asked him if he wanted a drink and told him that sometimes when we drink water, it makes the pee-pee come out in the potty. He thought this was a good idea, so I gave him a little cup of water. I then turned around to help Esther dry off. When I looked back, he was pouring the water into his little potty. I guess he figured he could trick me into thinking that he'd actually gone potty!

Girls' Weekend

Well of course I needed to do a post about the girls' weekend that corresponded with Casey and Peter's boys' weekend. My mom, my Aunt Elaine, Esther, Miriam and I ventured to Chicago to visit my sister and all stayed with her in her 1-bedroom apartment. This resulted in Miriam not sleeping very well which resulted in nobody sleeping very well. However, we did have a lot of fun despite that! We ate out, had lots of ice cream (ok, everyone except me had lots of ice cream), played games, colored, blew bubbles, laughed, walked, played at a couple parks, and went to the zoo. It was really fun to all be together!

We almost always go to the zoo when we visit Karen and we always take Esther's picture by the sign. It's fun to see how she grows and changes in between visits. She was too tired to get her picture taken this time, but we figured we should start the tradition with Miriam!

Boys' Weekend

This weekend, Laura and the girls headed out to Chicago to visit Aunt Karen....leaving the boys at home! Now, due to Peter's recent interest in Esther's Barbies, a weekend full of testosterone was definitely in order. Following is brief run down of the weekend.

Friday:

Mommy and the girls left and Peter went to spend the day with Aunt Erin and his pal Anna while Daddy was at work. Now, this was not quite the "girl-free" day Daddy felt Peter needed....but, when Daddy saw how Peter had Anna giving him hugs and kisses, he knew Peter was headed down the right track.

Saturday:

We started our day out at Marge's Donut Den for some nutrition for our morning. Who needs healthy oatmeal when a large chocolate sprinkled donut will give you the sugar high you need to get going? We then headed out to Grandma and Grandpa K's house so that Grandpa and Daddy could replace the rotors on Daddy's car. Peter found this interesting for about 2 minutes, but at least it kept him away from dolls.

Peter fell asleep on the way home and proceeded to take a 3 hour nap (apparently Aunt Erin and Anna tired him out the day before). Daddy proceeded to take a nap as well (this is what guys should do on a weekend) and mowed the lawn. We met Grandpa W at Russ' for dinner and shared a strawberry shake (the strawberries in the shake were in order to say I had given Peter at least 1 fruit during the day).

The 3 hour nap appeared to leave Peter with plenty of extra energy, so he and I headed over to the mall after dinner so he could play in the play area for a while. To prove to all that as men we lived on the edge, Peter played in the play area in bare feet AND we did not use any Purell to wash his hands when we were done playing. (Of course, if he comes down with a cold or the flu in the next few days, it will now be my fault.)

Sunday:

We visited Brookside church so Daddy could hear a friend of his preach. The bonus of this was that Aunt Erin and Uncle Jeff were on nursery duty for the day....Peter didn't even say goodbye to me when he saw them.

After a nice dinner at Grandma and Grandpa K's, and a quiet afternoon at home, we headed out to Holland State Park with some friends. Unfortunately, after an hour it began to rain, but a good time was still had by all.

Little Giggle Bug

My Aunt Elaine bought this Dora Beanie Baby for Esther for her birthday. Apparently Miriam thinks it's quite hilarious!

Happy 4th Birthday Esther!

We had a very fun weekend celebrating Esther's birthday. Saturday night we had a party with the grandparents, aunts and uncles, and a couple friends. Esther got some really fun gifts that she has already played with a lot! She was a little overwhelmed with being the center of attention, but I think she did enjoy herself. The theme of her party was Abby Cadabby (a cute fairy character from Sesame Street) and Grandma K. came through again with an adorable (and of course delicious) cake!

Sunday morning (her actual birthday) she opened her gifts from us and we went to church.


Her request for her birthday dinner was steak, so Casey grilled some up after church. We hung out and played with her new toys, went for a walk and bike ride, and just relaxed in the afternoon. We ended her special day by going out for ice cream.

It's hard to believe Esther is 4 already! She brings us such joy, makes us laugh with the things she says, and can be such a little drama queen. She is also a big helper and loves to help around the house without even being asked. It seems like she has grown up a lot in the last year and it has been fun to watch her take on the role of big sister to Miriam. They have a special bond right now, and it's precious to observe them together. She and Peter seem to fight quite a bit these days, but they can also be good buddies and have a lot of fun together. It will be fun to share in the adventures of the next year as she goes to preschool in the fall. She is an amazing little girl and we love her so much!

Someone....Please buy this boy a football!!!!!

Or at least a GI Joe doll.

Happy Father's Day!

I asked the kids what their favorite thing is about Daddy or what they like to do with him the most. Here are their responses:

Esther: "I like it when he helps me, like when I can't reach something, and when he builds stuff for me and Peter like the playroom in the basement."

Peter: "I don't know." I think if he hadn't been so engrossed in the painting he was working on at the time and if he had actually understood my question, he probably would have said, "Riding in Daddy's police car!"

Miriam: "Blah, blah." I'm pretty sure she said, "When Daddy flies me up in the air like Super Miriam!"

I am so thankful for the amazing father that Casey is to our kids. I'm also so blessed to have such a wonderful, loving and generous Dad myself, and a great father-in-law too! Here are a few pictures from Father's day:

Daddy's breakfast in bed

Miriam and Grandpa W.

Esther and cousin Tyler with Grandpa K.

Grandpa K. and his grandsons

Tea Party

Esther sometimes just like to have a little alone time (or in reality, a break from Peter), so I cleared out some stuff from her closet floor so that she could have a little area to play, look at books, or do whatever she wants to have some peace and quiet. Yesterday afternoon she went in there with her friends and had a tea party. It was so cute, and she even let me join them for a spot of tea.

Future Herpetologist

Miriam seems to be quite comfortable with snakes...

Swimming Lessons

Tonight was Esther's first night of swimming lessons. She has been in swim classes twice before. Once was in utero when I did pregnancy water aerobics, and the other was when she was about 10 months old and we did a parent-tot class. Obviously she doesn't recall either of those experiences, so this was essentially her first time.

Considering the fact that she hates getting water in her face in the tub or when Peter splashes in the kiddie pool, I had a feeling that this might be a traumatic experience for her (and me). We've been talking about it for several weeks and also got there early so she could see the pool and watch part of another class. She did fine and seemed totally relaxed until it was time to start her class.

The teacher, Miss Lisa, asked the 5 girls in her class to sit on the edge of the pool and she freaked out and clung to me and got quite hysterical. I managed to get her to sit on the edge with her feet in the water as long as I was holding her. Miss Lisa then started taking turns doing various things with each of the girls such as floating on their backs, making big circles with their arms, etc... As the class progressed, she went from crying/screaming and basically being peeled away from me by the teacher each time it was her turn, to holding on to the edge as part of the train with only a little fear in her eyes, to tentatively jumping into Miss Lisa's arms, to actually kicking her feet and splashing at the end of the class! Progress! I was very impressed with Miss Lisa because she somewhat forced Esther to do things, but at the same time was very reassuring, encouraging, kind and calm with her. I think she's just what Esther needs!

Afterwards I told her I was very proud of how brave she was and that we should probably celebrate her success, so we stopped at McDonald's for an ice cream cone. She was in a great mood for the rest of the night, so hopefully she'll go into next week's class on a positive note and we'll both enjoy it more!